feat(push): make gateway origin configurable (#7261)

Make the push gateway origin configurable across the relay, gateway,
mobile client, and deployment chart.

This is a fresh deployment. The gateway has only run on personal
development infrastructure, and push has no existing enabled users.
Legacy migration, configured-to-unconfigured mobile transitions, and
rolling upgrades from pre-launch gateway binaries are not supported.

Populated pre-launch databases are rejected with an informative error
before migrations run; their data is untouched. Mobile builds may omit
the gateway URL, leaving push unavailable. Once push is enabled,
subsequent builds must retain that configuration.

### Validation

- All applicable CI checks pass at
`5f546cfaf403f0386f146d213adfb4392f4ec29c`, including Rust,
mobile/Swift, desktop/integration, security, image builds, and Helm
checks. An unrelated agent cancellation test passed on retry.
- PostgreSQL CI passed 384 tests, including the production-entry-point
regression for refusing populated pre-launch databases before
migrations, fresh initialization, and subsequent initialized
deployments.
- Focused local validation passed all 10 gateway PostgreSQL tests under
the CI discovery filter and all 3 unconfigured-mobile tests.
Repository-wide PostgreSQL discovery validation and the complete
pre-push hooks passed.
- Physical-device APNs/App Attest behavior and deployment to a live
cluster were not verified in this work.

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Signed-off-by: Tom Brow <tomb@block.xyz>
Co-authored-by: Codex <noreply@openai.com>

deploy/compose/.env.example

@@ -18,6 +18,10 @@ BUZZ_REQUIRE_RELAY_MEMBERSHIP=true
 BUZZ_ALLOW_NIP_OA_AUTH=true
 BUZZ_AUTO_MIGRATE=true
 BUZZ_GIT_CONFORMANCE_PROBE=true
+# Push stays disabled unless explicitly enabled. Keep the delivery endpoint
+# explicit so enabling it never depends on an in-code deployment fallback.
+BUZZ_PUSH_ENABLED=false
+BUZZ_PUSH_GATEWAY_DELIVERY_URL=https://push.buzz.xyz/v1/deliveries/apns
 RUST_LOG=buzz_relay=info,buzz_db=info,buzz_auth=info,buzz_pubsub=info,tower_http=info
 
 # Owner identity. Set to a 64-character hex Nostr pubkey.